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Title: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: kck on December 13, 2011, 12:54:18 PM
Alright.. Allow me to introduce myself, albeit this may not be the most optimal place for an intro, but.. I do need what a pro-shop would typically be able to offer... Also, im not at a computer and typing this on a digital qwerty pad, so please forgive what errors I may make.

Now, a bit of background.. I've been to a rink I'd say 11 times or so. 10 of those times, when I was near 8 years old, and I was probably nearer the 100lb range and using rentals. Lets fast-forward to today. I am 23 years old, 6'2" and over 300 pounds. I decided as a cute date idea to take my girlfriend for her first time skating.. And she was a natural. She fell once, and there were a few people at the rink who gave us some tips, very friendly atmosphere. I live in Southern Cali, and this rink was 2 and a half hours away.

I on the other hand, didn't live up to my "it's like a bike, ill pick it up easily" -- I tied my laces horribly at first and buckled my way to the ice while laughing hysterically and got on the ice and almost fell immediately. Luckily, that wasn't when I first fell. I stepped off the ice and got some advice to lace them hard as possible. I did as such an improved. This was the first time I fell. But, I made a full loop. After losing the fear of breaking something, I got bolder and remembered to bend my knees more. Well I was naturally hooked.

Long story short.. Since now my phone id lagging from so much text entered.. I've been reading a lot on here since that day and want to get deeper into this and lose a lot of weight in the process.. Now, where should I start, short of paying for classes? The reason i ask in such a manner is because i don't know any resources out here in southern California. I would love to get some skates for just gliding around and learning then moving up into more advanced stuff and happily paying for lessons.. But i want to know where i should begin so i don't get ripped off or wind up buying some boots i found on amazon because they had 5 star reviews. I  really dont want to come on hear sounding rude, and i say this for a few reasons...


I know every answer im looking for is probably here, but maybe there's newer developments that could help someone like me or at least tips that people can recommend for a guy my size. I don't mind paying , i just don't want to get ripped off. Thanks!!!

Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: Skittl1321 on December 13, 2011, 01:18:20 PM
Welcome to skatingforums!

I unfortunately cannot offer you any advice on skates, but I will say- if you are really interested in skating, I'd get into group classes.  They usually are not very expensive, can give you a bit of a social outlet, and will keep you from teaching yourself improper techniques.

You will then also have the resources of the instructors to help you figure out the best skates for you.


Can you give us a bit more of an idea of where in Southern California you are?  There is quite a bit of skating there (more resources than I have out her in Iowa at least...), but of course- Southern California is a BIG area :)


(And for lacing skates- you don't want to lace them as hard as possible, but for beginners that is probably better advice than very loose.  You want a balance between support and ability to move.  You shouldn't be cutting off circulation or causing pain.)
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: hopskipjump on December 13, 2011, 01:24:48 PM
I'd look in your local parks and rec catalog.  Adult classes are often offered and they cover lacing, how to get down and back up and basic skating skills.  They are usually nominal in cost (about 40-50 dollars) and last about 4 weeks and include skate rental and practice time.  After doing a session of that, you might want to sign up through the rink directly - that is when they start teaching more basics and talk to a proshop about skates (with advice from a coach).  Most adults in Parks and Rec use the rink skates, it when they move to the regular adult program that they start thinking about their own skates.


Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: kck on December 13, 2011, 01:51:04 PM
Well, as far as my location in Southern California.. I'm in the desert portion, located in the middle of nowhere. To be a bit more clear, I live roughly an hour from Palm Springs, which I only last night found they have a rink in Cathedral City called the "Desert Ice Castle" which do offer classes, and each session is $15 for 30 minutes, and they offer like 9 week programs which cost $100. Now, they are a new rink and I don't really know the community and their reliability. This is why I figured I should come on to here.

By the way, I am on an actual computer now. For the visit to the rink we went to Ontario. Which is about 2 - 2 1/2 hours drive. The whole drive was for skating, as I really wanted to skate. And now I'm really wanting to further my skills. Besides that, I made the mistake of bringing my girlfriend. Since she did so amazing, of course all she can do now is watch videos on youtube and talk about the new stuff she feels she can learn off youtube. I of course keep telling her to pace herself, you need to master basics before you try and get anywhere near doing that. Just get your balance down and practice pacing yourself. As I said, she fell once in a 3 hour session. I on the other hand, only fell 3 times. But, then again.. Being a man of my low stamina and endurance matched with over 300 pounds of weight, I couldn't remain on the ice for extended periods. I'd do a lap or two, then go sit down or stand by the penalty box and breathe and get up the courage to do another lap.

Even with the problems I face, I know I can get better. And on top of that, I need to lose weight. I have a government job working odd hours, so classes really would be hard for me to attend. I imagine I could attend the Saturday classes at the "Desert Ice Castle"  which runs from 9am-9:30am.. But... I'd have to leave work, rush home, change, drive right out there, and hope I make it in time. Needless to say, if I was late... They won't be holding the class. Working graveyard kinda prohibits the idea of going at the 4pm classes offered on Tuesdays and Thursdays.. But, I'll see what I can come up with.

You are very correct about the horrible lacing I was doing, but it did help. I know that being 300 pounds and standing on two slim blades probably isn't the easiest thing in the world, but after lacing up the boots super tight, they worked a lot better. But I found walking off the ice, I had to bow my ankles out, which I can only imagine is super terrible to do and not recommended for any length of time since it is causing unneccessary wear and tear on my joints. This is what drives me to want to get my own boots. I figure, I know I'll stick with it if I make a financial investment towards it. But then there are soo many options and things i need to learn...

Like... Having a proper bag. I would need the proper guards and know how to wipe off my boots, and also proper care about keeping them from getting too moist.. Then things like.. Should I get leather, or should I get the PVC? I figure probably PVC for my first boots, and then move up to leather and start getting the waxes and stuff I see people talking about. Keep in mind, I went skating for the first time in years Sunday. Monday I slept all day and worked last night, and it is now 10:50AM -- So all the stuff I've read I've read in the last 24 hours or so -- And almost all of that was from here. I've been trying to absorb as much information as possible, and at the same time try and figure out the best plan of attack for myself..

So bottom line is.. My nearest rink is 57 miles from my house. And I would like to start making weekly drives. I just bought a new 2012 car, so I don't mind putting over a hundred miles a week or more on it. This rink is a new rink, opened in September. I might go and check it out later today, and go to their Public Session from 2:15 to 4:15. So to hopskip, I believe I answered most of the things you mentioned in regards to taking classes, and the place I mentioned is like a city sponsored rink. So that's pretty much my launch pedestal.

Now, do you see why I stopped typing on my phone? If I put all this on my phone.. Wow, my phone probably would have crashed by the fourth "paragraph." Thanks for reading if you made it this far :-p
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: Skittl1321 on December 13, 2011, 02:18:26 PM
I don't know much about the rink in Cathedral City except that Frank Carrol coaches there.  He is one of the absolute best coaches in the nation.  Now- you won't be taking from him...  but that means the rink is trying to attract good staff.  That is good news in terms of them being able to help you buy skates.  At least SOMEONE there should know what they are talking about.

For a beginner, you are fine getting skates with PVC soles.  Leather is generally better because the blades can be changed out more easily (blades with screws can be changed, blades with rivets cannot be) but for an absolute beginner who hasn't started lessons yet, that isn't too much of a concern.  

Around here, most adults do not buy skates until they get to Basic 4 or 5, as that is the level where you can handle a bit more of a toe-pick, and then you can get the lowest level Freestyle boots.  If you buy skates before Basic 5, you will want a fairly small toepick (like on a rental skate) and they will need to be replaced when you are up to higher levels.  That's one reason to stay in rentals for a little bit, if you progress quickly, you will be better off buying a slightly better skate than a beginner can handle.  Some people don't progress quickly though, so if you can afford beginner skates , using your own equipment is always better.

There is definetly a concern about putting someone very heavy in low level skates, but I'm not sure if the support issue outweighs the problem that stiffer skates will have too big of a toe pick for a beginner.  Does that rink have a pro-shop (mine doesn't)?  Or can you see if someone there will recommend a boot fitter?

You should also call the rink and see if Beginners are allowed on Coffee Club ice.  If you can fit that into your schedule, that can be a good way to meet other adults, and if you are talkative, you can likely get some good advice from people who may know a little more than general public session skaters.

As you buy equipment- we can definetly help you out on care and useage.  #1- no such thing as a proper bag. You can spend lots of money to get a fancy skater one, or you can throw them in a Duffle like most men do (I am a woman, but use my old school backpack.  #2- protect the blades in the bag with soft guards called "soakers".  You want to wipe your blades dry, then put the soakers on.  This helps them from smashing into each other, and also draws away any extra moisture.  #3 hard plastic blade guards are used for walking around.  I only have a short walk on mats from where I put the blades on to get to the ice, so I never use hard guards except the week before a competition.


It sounds like after only one trip to the rink you have a severe case of AOSS- adult onset skating syndrome.  Welcome to the club!
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: JHarer on December 13, 2011, 04:17:05 PM
I'm in So. Cali about 45 minutes from Palm Desert. I know the marketing director at Desert Ice Castle used to coach at Center Ice Arena in Ontario (there are  2 rinks right down the street from each other in Ontario) I am not sure how well Desert Ice Castles skating school is set up, I do know that none of the students from the desert area left Center Ice when Desert Ice Castle opened.

I'm not sure if Desert Ice Castle has a pro-shop, but most likely the best place for you to go to get an excellent fit and good advice is going to be Anaheim (USA Skates or Anaheim Ice, which are across the street from each other, both have very good reputations as figure skating pro shops.)

Center Ice Arena (one of the rinks in Ontario) just opened a pro shop, however I wouldn't recommend them yet.... IceTown in Riverside also has a pro shop, they carry figure skates (only women's sizes in stock) but are geared towards hockey (they are run by HockeyMonkey.com).

As for lessons, I highly high recommend that you work with a professional right from the beginning whether it is in classes or private lessons. Trying to self-teach leads to bad habits that will end up needed to be corrected later on. If you would like a referral for a coach at the Ontario rink (Center Ice Arena), i'd be happy to tell you about the coaches there. I do not work there, but that is where I skate and I am familiar with most of the coaches. Just PM me.

Good luck and welcome to the wonderful world of figure skating :)
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: FigureSpins on December 13, 2011, 04:28:21 PM
Free advice is overpriced, but here goes:

. At 300 lbs and 6'2", start with a doctor's checkup to make sure you're fit enough.

Once you get that go-ahead:
. Start doing off-ice exercises daily, in your case aerobic exercise is just as important as core strength.
. Balance and Core videos or video games are good off-ice workouts a few times each week.
. Get your own skates and skate weekly (or more) for at least 8 times to make sure you like it.
. Get the skates sharpened before use and store with dry soakers on them.
. Use the hard rubber guards when you're walking around.
. Dry the skates and blades well before putting the soakers on for storage.
. Most adults just use an old carryon suitcase or a backpack/tote for skates.

. Take the group lessons to start out - they're your most economic option.
. If you have a choice, go with the Basic 1-8 track instead of the Adult track.
. Print out the curriculum (http://www.usfsa.org/Content/BasicSkills1-8.pdf) and keep it in your skate bag.
. In addition to the lesson, plan on spending 2-3 additional hours  each week skating and practicing the elements on your curriculum sheet.

I suspect the reason you're struggling is because of your weight - you've most likely grown in both height and weight since you were little, so your center of gravity and strength have changed.  You have to regain your strength and balance, which will help you lose weight, but you have make sure you're eating properly and at the right times.

Bring a snack to eat after you skate - something healthy - to prevent Snack Bar Temptation.

As for what skates to get, it's tricky.  I would suspect that you have a wide foot and there aren't that many choices of men's skates with wide widths.  Most pro shops aren't carrying stock in adult sizes because of the economy, so finding a place to try on skates is difficult.  There aren't a lot of men's used skates for sale regularly.

Start by finding out the correct size for both Riedell and Jackson skates - they have separate measuring sticks.  The pro shop can measure you and recommend a model.  Given your size, you need a pair of skates with good support, so you don't break them down too quickly.  All-PVC models cannot support your weight - they'd be like socks within a few weeks.

Jackson has a men's model called the "Marquis," but they only come in one width.
You could pay a little extra and order a wide-width Classique in black.
Both have PVC-bottoms and leather/vinyl uppers, so they're low-maintenance.
If not, the Jackson Freestyles are the next step up, but they're more expensive and have a bigger blade which might be too much for a beginner.

Riedell models are the same: the Men's Riedell 121 only comes in a "Medium" width, but the white version comes in Medium and Wide.  For a price, they could order the right color for you.  You can just wear them as-is (white) or put on a pair of black boot covers.  The next step up is the 133TS, but it's a little more pricey and has a freestyle blade on it, which will take some getting used to after wearing oversharpened rentals.

That's my 2ยข worth - good luck and welcome to skatingforums!
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: MadMac on December 13, 2011, 08:52:53 PM
I agree. The rental skates are not going to support you. I really urge you to go to a good pro shop and be fitted. Get some instruction, whether in classes or private lessons. Things will go much more smoothly for you than if you try to do this on your own relying only on advice from absent strangers.

Welcome to the forums and the wonderful world of ice skating!! Have fun! and keep us informed of your progress and adventures.
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: AgnesNitt on December 13, 2011, 09:07:17 PM
The Big Guy is 6'3" and weighs 280. He skates in Jackson Supremes. Based on many discussions with him, you may need to go to the competitive level boots. The Big Guy was doing single jumps and he went through two pairs of Elite Supremes a year. You might expect that without jumping you may need to replace boots annually.

Based on the Big Guy's experience, don't expect your beginner's boots to last all that long. However, if you don't like them you can expect not to be stuck with them all that long.

He swore by Jacksons though. I'm a fan of their women's line.
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: Skittl1321 on December 13, 2011, 09:09:58 PM
AgnesNitt-  were there any problems with using blades that can be put on high level boots as a beginner?  The lowest level blade Ultima sells is the Mark IV, and even that has a low-level freestyle toe pick.  I'd worry a beginner would have quite a few "toe-pick" moments on those...
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: AgnesNitt on December 13, 2011, 09:19:45 PM
AgnesNitt-  were there any problems with using blades that can be put on high level boots as a beginner?  The lowest level blade Ultima sells is the Mark IV, and even that has a low-level freestyle toe pick.  I'd worry a beginner would have quite a few "toe-pick" moments on those...

The Big Guy never mentioned that. I think toe pick moments are inevitable. If kck didn't like the size of the drop pick he could have it angled so it wasn't so dominant. That's what I did.
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: AgnesNitt on December 13, 2011, 09:40:06 PM
Hi KCK, this is shameless self promotion, but I have an adult figure skating blog,
www.icedoesntcare.blogspot.com.

You might find it helpful to click around there as there are some posts of interest to beginners. Here's some to start off with:

http://icedoesntcare.blogspot.com/2011/11/bendthatankle.html  has some personal experience with boot tying

http://icedoesntcare.blogspot.com/2011/11/warming-up-is-more-than-keeping-warm.html  how warm up is important for adult skaters out of their 20s

http://icedoesntcare.blogspot.com/2011/12/skate-bags.html all about skate bags. If you have 6'2" guy feet, give up on the zuca, you'll never get your boots in there, the Big Guy tried.

There's also an entire series on skating protection during falls.

BTW I put 400 miles a week on my car to skate. I'm about to go up to 500.
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: kck on December 13, 2011, 09:42:03 PM
Well, I truly appreciate the overwhelming support. For the record, the 300lbs is not muscle by any means. I am a large fat man, haha. My girlfriend is a little asian roughly half my size, and she did exceedingly well on the rental skates. But regardless of all that... I realize that getting these higher-end boots will put me at a higher learning curve and may make me fail a lot more than if I used the entry level skates, because I imagine these higher-end boots are built for people who know what they are doing. I don't mind learning at a curve, I just don't want to fail at getting support because I use $2 rentals. I'd be happy spending $180 knowing that I'd be safe, and not having to worry about my weight breaking the struts or whatever they are called.

I do have a wide foot as someone had mentioned. I don't know if that means "b" or "c" for the width, as I seen those mentioned on some skate websites for certain shoes. I will most certainly go to a pro shop and get fitted. I've only looked online at boots just to kinda get the feel for them. I don't plan on buying something randomly that I cannot try on. Besides, if I am spending the money on some expensive skates at a shop, I might as well get them molded.

I've had a terrible diet over the past few months, but I am getting better. I'm trying to focus on eating healthier and drinking more water. I just recently had a physical for my newest government position and the doctor was actually stunned at how surprisingly healthy I was for someone at my weight caliber. Now, I could go for another check-up as was suggested previously, but I imagine I'd want to see someone more along the lines of a Sports Doctor inside my healthcare system, to make sure I'd be good. But as far as if it has to do with my heart or anything, I am solid. My blood pressure is solid, and various other things in my life are all solid. I don't have any deterioration of anything that I know of and I'm relatively healthy for being my size.

I feel this will be the start of my exercising regiment. I don't mind exercising outside of the rink. As a matter of fact, I'd love to. It's hard to stay motivated, but to know that I am going to achieve something positive in the end is more than I can ask for. And on top of that, I will have a very insistent girlfriend who is DYING to go skating again at my heels. Granted, I'm a larger guy and it will take me a while to get down to a smaller weight, but I'm kinda afraid. I'm 23 and weighing 300 pounds. I need a way to lose weight, especially since I am putting away hundreds towards my retirement every month and I want to live to see it come back.

The Anaheim idea doesn't bother me. That's roughly 3 hours from here in a good drive, and after doing a few more sessions like someone suggested, I'll take that trip, get something fitted, purchase or have them ordered, and then get them molded. Then I need to find a good blade sharpener, which I imagine would be at that same pro shop. I don't think there's a very large community in my general area, so I don't mind the travel. I'd rather travel 3 hours to get it done right, then to have some idiot sharpen them and break my ankle or something because they got messed up.

Once again, sorry for the immensely long winded post. You may find I do a lot of that. I wish to be active here, and I don't want to give up on this. I don't think I planned on getting into figure skating to begin with, but honestly it'll be a lot better than my original idea of going in circles. And hey, despite what all my friends say about how only homosexuals skate.. I'm still dedicated. And it won't deter me. This may be what saves my life... So thanks for all the support. I truly appreciate it.


Oh, and as far as going for the pro coaches right off the bat... I would love too.. But I heard things like $125/hr session. I don't know if I am willing to shell that out right off the bat, especially since if it is going to be me and my girlfriend, that $250/hr is a 1/4 of my paycheck. But I will do what I can. I gotta figure out a plan and stick to it. Anyone got any more dieting advice? I hate vegetables, but I've been forcing salads upon myself with little to no dressing whatsoever... And as far as lettuce goes, I can at least muscle that down and not cry too much. ;-)
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: AgnesNitt on December 13, 2011, 09:51:04 PM
KCK, since you like to write, and are taking up a sport, and trying to lose weight why not start your own blog? It could be very interesting.
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: kck on December 13, 2011, 09:53:46 PM
Because, I may not be "in with the 90's" like some people ;-)
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: Skittl1321 on December 13, 2011, 10:02:02 PM
I agree.. write a blog! (mine is linked below... The very first entries include me back on the ice for the first time since I was a kid at public skate.). It is also.a good.way to see.progress.
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: Skittl1321 on December 13, 2011, 10:08:40 PM
Oh, and I think you are over estimating the cost of a coach. You could do a 20 minute lesson every two weeks (plus unsupervised practice). It would probably be.$30ish, plus ice time.  Usually coaches just pet semi privates split the cost, or charge only slightly more, not charge twice. So it would be more.affordable to take lessons with your girlfriend. 
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: JHarer on December 13, 2011, 10:09:43 PM
KCK a coach should run more like $30 for 30 minutes here in So. Cal. I've never paid than that for a private lesson, not including ice time which if you skate on public session is roughly $8 per session.
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: JHarer on December 13, 2011, 10:10:40 PM
Oh I have a blog too, it is www.bladebunnies.blogspot.com
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: AgnesNitt on December 13, 2011, 10:16:02 PM
KCK. Here's an article from a writer for Men's Health who took up skating in his forties. He's passed Silver I've heard. But he may be Gold by now.

http://www.menshealth.com/fitness/train-new-sport
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: sarahspins on December 13, 2011, 10:23:49 PM
Because, I may not be "in with the 90's" like some people ;-)

It doesn't matter.. even if you just do it for yourself, I bet you will look back in a few years and really appreciate that you took the time to write it down.

Also, if your initial goal is fitness and weight loss, you might consider a decent pair of hockey skates (as in a step above what you can buy in a big box store).. they tend to be more forgiving in fit than figure skates are, and as an added bonus, are actually designed and built for some fairly large men.
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: JSM on December 13, 2011, 10:59:42 PM
Welcome!  Skating is fantastic for getting into/ staying in shape, plus it's the best feeling in the world to be on the ice!

Any skater will tell you that off ice training is essential for on ice progress, I can always tell when I've done my exercises (and so can my coach, haha).

I've seen a number of beginners do private lessons in groups, I think it's a great way to get individualized attention for a lower cost.  Would your girlfriend perhaps want to do them with you?

Im jealous that you guys will get to do this together, my husband stays far away from the ice (the stands are as close as he gets!).
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: hopskipjump on December 13, 2011, 11:07:58 PM
You will probably find a range for coaching - 30 for 30 minutes, but I have also seen 40 for 20 minutes.  You won't want longer than 30 minutes at a time in the beginning. 

Sadly it is not usually one trip to get boots.  Dd got fitted, had to wait for the boots to come in, then had them molded.  Then we had to come back for waterproofing and sharpening.  Then there were about 3-4 more visits to get them punched and the blades centered.
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: jjane45 on December 14, 2011, 12:51:44 AM
KCK. Here's an article from a writer for Men's Health who took up skating in his forties. He's passed Silver I've heard. But he may be Gold by now.

http://www.menshealth.com/fitness/train-new-sport

Ha I enjoyed reading the article again. Bryan is a real athlete, it's very inspiring to share the ice with him.

Back to skates. I also think that instead of going to high end stiff figure skates, hockey skates may indeed work better, as sarahspins suggested.
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: taka on December 14, 2011, 03:49:27 AM
I was about your weight when I started skating again and have lost ~75lbs so far. Rental skates gave me absolutley no ankle support so I started skate shopping after a couple of weeks, knowing that I was thoroughly addicted to skating again.

If I was you I'd go skate another few times and then, if you are still keen, look at buying a pair of skates and finding either a coach for joint lessons with your GF or an adult friendly group lesson. Definitely go to a proper skate fitter to work out your sizing and the best boots for you. Do you want to skate around occasionally or would you like to learn to play hockey or do figure skating? What you want to do on the ice (if you know yet?) will help determine which kind of boots to go for too.

If you are reading up on boots online, remember that a lot of online skate level guidance on shop / manufacturer websites about which boots to get for different skating levels is often aimed at lightweight children and not adults. As I was going through the learn to skate levels quite quickly (as I skated as a child) and was larger, I bought stiffer boots than most people on my level would have needed. I completely trashed those boots in ~10 months - hardly any support left at all. I also found that as I lost weight my foot shape changed so I needed a different width fitting so having to buy another pair after a relatively short period meant I have ones that properly fit me again!  ;D

When I started skating again I was horribly unfit so even just skating round was a tough workout! It got better though. I also did a lot of walking away from the rink to help get me moving more too and gradually added other exercise to this. I also used a free website ( www.myfitnesspal.com ) to start tracking what I was eating and begin to change my diet for the better. I still have a bunch of weight to loose but skating has really helped give me that motivation to do so.

AgnesNitt-  were there any problems with using blades that can be put on high level boots as a beginner?  The lowest level blade Ultima sells is the Mark IV, and even that has a low-level freestyle toe pick.  I'd worry a beginner would have quite a few "toe-pick" moments on those...
A few of the rental skates at my rink have rather trashed Mark IV blades on them, so it is possible to learn on them - It just means you learn to respect the toe picks quite quickly! ;) Jackson Artiste skates have Mark IV blades and they are classed as beginner boots according to the Jackson website.

Good luck!  :D  :BS:
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: kck on December 14, 2011, 04:29:17 AM
Back on the cellphone typing again, so expect odd length and random attempts to summarize all my thoughts to all the posts. Originally, I had set out to just skate. I figured, hockey skates and just do laps and get into it.. But the more I read about figure skating.. The more I feel the urge to go for it.. I feel like the guy in that damn article Agnes's posted (Im a sucker for success stories like that)... I don't know what im going to do.. I just know I want to do it.. I felt a swell of complete happiness as I circled around that rink. I felt impressive when I was avoiding the little kids, and not dying when I went further away from the comfort of the wall. Just reading more and thinking about this makes me want to go skating again. I may go check this Desert Ice Castle when I get off work. I may just take a nap first. Im pretty exhausted from staying up reading all damn day about stuff. Lol... Maybe ill make a journal and then make it into a blog. We'll see. 
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: kck on December 14, 2011, 08:24:15 PM
So I went today. And let me just say.. Im impressed. Because its in a wealthier part of town, I got lucky enough to ride in some Jackson figure skates. I'll edit thus later and explain more about what happend. Just a little excited so I had to post. Im starting to alter my diet, and im feeling really happy. I was on the ice for almost a whole hour. Several people gave me compliments, and I got hit on by a gay guy. He was super impressed with how well I was doing for my second time. Post more later, and a video too :-o
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: Skittl1321 on December 14, 2011, 08:30:57 PM
Can't wait to hear!

You might have to start posting in our good/bad practice threads :)
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: PrettySk8Dress on December 14, 2011, 11:30:26 PM
But the more I read about figure skating.. The more I feel the urge to go for it..

 I don't know what im going to do.. I just know I want to do it.. I felt a swell of complete happiness as I circled around that rink. I felt impressive when I was avoiding the little kids, and not dying when I went further away from the comfort of the wall.
 
 Maybe ill make a journal and then make it into a blog. We'll see. 

Just a quick word of encouragement, KCK, from myself, Ponytails, to continue to review and decide what you want to do with your skating goals. You are to be commended for your enthusiasm, but take the time to decide just how all of the advice and comments given to you can be useful to you. I hope you can continue to learn and experience ice skating, it can help you in so many ways.

By all means, start a blog if you like. But the trouble with blogs is that if everyone does one ( and these days everyone does ), how can one keep up by reading and commenting on all of the blogs ? That could take several hours a day to stay up on everything, and how many people have the time to sit and type at a computer answering blogs for several hours each day ?
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: sk8tegirl06 on December 15, 2011, 12:28:20 AM
I have a government job working odd hours, so classes really would be hard for me to attend. I imagine I could attend the Saturday classes at the "Desert Ice Castle"  which runs from 9am-9:30am.. But... I'd have to leave work, rush home, change, drive right out there, and hope I make it in time. Needless to say, if I was late... They won't be holding the class. Working graveyard kinda prohibits the idea of going at the 4pm classes offered on Tuesdays and Thursdays.. But, I'll see what I can come up with.

Just want to chime in on this one, I'm on the graveyard shift as well, been on it for about 2 months with 6ish weeks until it might change. Right now I'm only skating once a week, but I get home about 8am, nap until 10:30ish, do public session from 11a-1p, head home for and sleep again from 2:30-3ish until 7-7:30ish and go to work again. A little unorthodox but it seems to work. Just wanted to let you know you're not alone with the odd hours.
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: kck on December 15, 2011, 04:16:55 AM
Good to know that there are others out there who experience the same thing as me on graveyard. As far as what ponytails said.. I may just make a journal, whereas it would be private writings, but also pictures and videos to document my progress. I can't deny that I understand people saying keep at it and make sure its for you. I completely understand, but I tell you now.. I can't see walking away.

I have no excuse. This new rink is close, not super packed, and will allow me to brush elbows with other figure skaters. I talked with several people who had their own skates, and a lot of them are actively being coached or getting some form of lessons. i have a good diving board for getting started. I can't see stopping now.. I gotta commit, or i may die in my 30s. I want time to live. And hell, if I can do that by doing salchows and other stuff I don't know how to spell, so be it. So be it.
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: Query on December 15, 2011, 10:43:15 AM
Practice helps, but initial athleticism matters a lot. There were years when I practiced 20 hours/week, under first class coaches, but I still have trouble with the most basic turns, spins and jumps. Accept that she will be better, and be happy for her.

Some rinks supply rental skates that provide good ankle support, some don't, and also vary in what widths they carry. Check out several pair at the rink, to see if something fits and meets your needs. You may be able to use rentals, especially if you arrive early enough to always ask for the same (numbered?) pair. I like to have my boots on before the session starts - the ice is least crowded during the first 10-20 minutes.

As a big guy, if you buy, the major specialty stores (Anaheim?) are unlikely to have your size in stock, so you can't try the skates on, which is otherwise a great idea. So you need a good fitter to help you order. Since a lot of people mention the store in Anaheim, it may be worthwhile.

Make sure the fitter knows how to adjust the skates you buy for balance! Some fitters can't handle non-leather soles, or blades held on by rivets, and a few don't know how to adjust balance at all.

I believe one of the best things we can do is to learn how to fall without hurting ourselves. Practice, to speed up your reflexes. Start low, from sitting position, and work your way up. See my page http://mgrunes.com/falling.html You have more padding then some, but you also can put more force on your body.

Hockey boots are harder to balance at first, and they work a little differently. If you decide to get lessons with the lady friend, ask her whether she would enjoy hockey or figure skating more - and get boots that fit that purpose. Also check what types of skating are available during your convenient hours - e.g., if there are no "stick and puck" practices and pick up hockey games sessions for adults, hockey is a lost cause.

You lift 300 pounds every time you move, so you are strong! I don't think it is realistic to expect to lose weight very quickly. Books say that if you lose over about .1 pounds/day on a prolonged basis, you probably weaken your heart, unless you do serious physical training. Buy for your current size, then add a little filler inside your boots when you lose weight. If you buy small, it's a lot of pain and hassle.

My page on modifying boots: http://mgrunes.com/boots/boots.html

Though I've changed my mind on boot fit from when I wrote that, after talking to experts: getting the position of the ball of your foot right, so the back of your heel touches while the ball of your foot can bend at the place the insole bends, is much more important than getting the length right - as long as the boot doesn't press at the front of or around the sides of your toes. Also, different brands of boot are designed to fit your foot differently, so the way the foot is measured (e.g., standing or sitting, and what the size numbers mean) depend entirely on the brand of boot. You need a knowledgeable fitter.

BTW, if you have problems with poor blood circulation (e.g., if your feet tingle or go numb in snug boots, or you can't feel how your feet fit the boots all over), stop, and ask your doctor if you can safely wear snug fitting boots. If not, take her swimming instead.
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: kck on December 15, 2011, 01:02:55 PM
Well Query.. Here's where I stand on the matter. I don't see this as a competition between my girlfriend and I. I've loved ice skating since I was young, so trust me.. I'm not expecting to "beat" her or anything like that. I also will not and can not depend on this as my only weight loss method. I don't expect to lose a ton of weight right off the bat, I know it will take time and effort. The place I found nearest me has actual good boots, and I plan to use those til I get better.

No, I don't plan on going for hockey. Im not a fan of hockey and I don't see myself becoming a hockey player. I will go for a mildly experienced figure skater over the next few years, that'll suit me just fine. I don't expect this to be an overnight thing. Im just enjoying the baby steps.

Thanks for the great advice so far. :-)
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: hopskipjump on December 15, 2011, 01:32:50 PM
RE a blog.  I kept a blog for a long time.  Readers just happened.  I didn't write for them, I wrote for myself to track a "journey".  So my advice is to write for yourself.  You'll enjoy a "journal".  After I had a couple hundred regular readers it started to feel weird.  It helped me get through a phase of my life though and I am glad for the experience. 

RE Skating.  I love that it is something you and your gf can do together.  I know couples who run or play tennis as their thing and they seem closer for it. 
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: kck on December 15, 2011, 01:42:51 PM
Haha, oddly enough we both play Tennis. She played as a Varsity player when she was a Freshman. Needless to say, she was devastated when after playing for only 3 months, she could no longer beat me. Im a fast fat man. Lol, but yeah.. We don't play Tennis anymore, because she gets overly competitive. That's why ice skating is actually Better for us. :-)
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: hopskipjump on December 15, 2011, 01:53:02 PM
HA ha!!!!  Too funny.   :D
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: nicklaszlo on December 15, 2011, 02:14:39 PM
We don't play Tennis anymore, because she gets overly competitive.

Maybe you should try ice dancing together, because it's hard for dance partners to compete.
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: sk8tegirl06 on December 15, 2011, 03:15:13 PM
Good to know that there are others out there who experience the same thing as me on graveyard. As far as what ponytails said.. I may just make a journal, whereas it would be private writings, but also pictures and videos to document my progress. I can't deny that I understand people saying keep at it and make sure its for you. I completely understand, but I tell you now.. I can't see walking away.

I have no excuse. This new rink is close, not super packed, and will allow me to brush elbows with other figure skaters. I talked with several people who had their own skates, and a lot of them are actively being coached or getting some form of lessons. i have a good diving board for getting started. I can't see stopping now.. I gotta commit, or i may die in my 30s. I want time to live. And hell, if I can do that by doing salchows and other stuff I don't know how to spell, so be it. So be it.


Yes definitely...honestly in some ways it is better because I'm on public sessions (less $$$) and they're during the day when most other people are at work/school. This week, I think there were about 7ish skaters and 4 or 5 coaches on the public session giving moves or dance lessons. Honestly for me skating is two things, the only exercise I wake up and want to do every day if I could and my sanity saver. Not sure if it is working the graveyard (having weird meal times) or the skating or both, but I've dropped ~15lbs without really trying.
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: AgnesNitt on December 15, 2011, 09:08:37 PM
kck, I like skating because as 'a person of size' I find it's much less stressful than aerobics or running, or even walking. I had to quit aerobics because it made my hips ache, the ache was immediately relieved by skating for 15 minutes. Totally different exercise experience.
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: kck on December 15, 2011, 10:40:44 PM
Its pretty nice. Im a very chatty person so I talk to a lot of people. I went skating again today and im certainly improving (And Agnes thanks for the lacing video, it helped!). I now have circulation to my feet! Oh, and the gay guy who hit on me yesterday was skating today! He didn't skate yesterday but I convinced him! He was so happy to see me and he took my lacing advice and he was doing pretty good for his first time! Oh and I helped two people by skating beside them and reminding them to bend their knees and not skate on their heels. One of the older ladies who works there just adores me and is excited I want to go with Figure Skating. Im going again tomorrow! :-D
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: JHarer on December 15, 2011, 10:56:35 PM
Its pretty nice. Im a very chatty person so I talk to a lot of people. I went skating again today and im certainly improving (And Agnes thanks for the lacing video, it helped!). I now have circulation to my feet! Oh, and the gay guy who hit on me yesterday was skating today! He didn't skate yesterday but I convinced him! He was so happy to see me and he took my lacing advice and he was doing pretty good for his first time! Oh and I helped two people by skating beside them and reminding them to bend their knees and not skate on their heels. One of the older ladies who works there just adores me and is excited I want to go with Figure Skating. Im going again tomorrow! :-D

Kck, your enthusiasm is contagious. I totally want to go check out Desert Ice Castle now.
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: kck on December 16, 2011, 03:00:01 AM
Well, if you want ill be there tomorrow for the public session. It runs from 2:15-4:15. I got to get my car serviced at 1pm and then after that im heading straight there. I'll be the 6'2" fat guy occasionally doing decent for an amateur ;-) -- I'll respond to my name on here or my name off the forum -- Jarrett. :-)

EDIT:: I just wanted to add to that.. Since I've never really interacted with anyone from the forum in person before, if you were able to make it out, I'd genuinely appreciate it.  Essentially everything I learned is from here in a sense.. From my lacing to how to basically skate . Itd be nice to see someone who can do things that I can only dream of at this point. Me and my girlfriend will be there so no matter what skill level you are at, you will impress her. Hell, at this point just seeing something from Basic 7 will be crazy in person ;-)

Oh, and as a PS: I had to bring up the curriculum to see if Basic 4 was something I'd never seen. I have since revised my statement :-P
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: kck on December 16, 2011, 09:07:14 AM
kck, I like skating because as 'a person of size' I find it's much less stressful than aerobics or running, or even walking. I had to quit aerobics because it made my hips ache, the ache was immediately relieved by skating for 15 minutes. Totally different exercise experience.

A little OT, and I apologize for double posting: Hey Agnes, I recall seeing you mention that you have an old Evelyn Kramer coat which I guess is what spawned the User Title "Wearing Evelyn Kramer's coat" -- It got me wondering who the heck she is. So I googled her, and seen a picture of her and thought.. "Wait.. That lady looks familiar..." and I go on to read she coaches at the place I go to *in* Cathedral City, the Desert Ice Castle. If it wasn't for the internet, I'd never know I was rubbing elbows with *important* people! :-D

I don't know what the odds of me approaching her and saying "Hey, so someone I know was wondering if she could get another one of your old coats" and it actually working, but... Just thought I'd point it out :-p

EDIT:: First asterisks, added the word in. Second asterisks, added the word important. Feel free to mentally remove those words that are encircled by asterisks, and you can see why I shouldn't be working graveyard. That's what posting at 5AM does to ya.


#evelynkramerscoat
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: Skittl1321 on December 16, 2011, 09:23:51 AM

I don't know what the odds of me approaching her and saying "Hey, so someone I know was wondering if she could get another one of your old coats" and it actually working, but... Just thought I'd point it out :-p

HAHA! This would be WAY too funny. 
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: drskater on December 16, 2011, 10:27:42 AM
Hmmmm, I've always wondered about the origin of "Wearing Evelyn Kramer's Coat." I must've missed something.  Is it a distinctive coat?

Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: Isk8NYC on December 16, 2011, 10:39:21 AM
Hmmmm, I've always wondered about the origin of "Wearing Evelyn Kramer's Coat." I must've missed something.  Is it a distinctive coat?

For the newbies, this was the original thread about EK's Coat on skatingforums_v.1:
http://skatingforums.com/index.php/topic,1989.0.html

(Restored from the archives)
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: drskater on December 16, 2011, 11:03:39 AM
A-Ha! Thanks for posting the archive. Very amusing. Yes, indeed, that is SOME coat.
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: kck on December 16, 2011, 11:44:53 AM
For the newbies, this was the original thread about EK's Coat on skatingforums_v.1:
http://skatingforums.com/index.php/topic,1989.0.html

(Restored from the archives)

Dan Brown version:

The coat was something to behold.. It carried with it numerous markings predated to a time where cults had no shame in flashing their allegiance. The accentuated hand prints marked by some gleaming substances harken to a secret society circa 1274 with ties to the 1782 Illuminati. What makes this more remarkable is that it is only owned by the elite, damn shame some of the rarest portions of the jacket took a besting by someone going dog walking.
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: irenar5 on December 16, 2011, 12:20:27 PM
Kck, your enthusiasm is so contagious!  Please be careful and pace your practices.  Too much too soon has a potential for an injury.  Figure skating works your body in a very different way, so be prepared to listen to your body and rest if needed. 
It is a very addicting sport- as all of us can attest to :-)
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: kck on December 18, 2011, 11:44:30 AM
Man I'm sure glad I came here! So much wonderful advice. I've come leaps and bounds from a week ago. But I'll continue to persevere. I will keep this thread open in case people have more advice, but I just wanted to stop and thank you all. I finally posted in the Introductions section, feel free to read it, and post. I don't mind at all. It's my lengthiest post yet, but summarizes my first week of skating pretty well. So enjoy everyone, and I will continue to persevere! :-p
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: AgnesNitt on December 18, 2011, 08:09:48 PM
EDIT:: I just wanted to add to that.. Since I've never really interacted with anyone from the forum in person before, if you were able to make it out, I'd genuinely appreciate it.  Essentially everything I learned is from here in a sense.. From my lacing to how to basically skate . Itd be nice to see someone who can do things that I can only dream of at this point. Me and my girlfriend will be there so no matter what skill level you are at, you will impress her. Hell, at this point just seeing something from Basic 7 will be crazy in person ;-)

Maybe we need a skating forums gang sign on our jacket so we can recognize each other at the rink!  :D
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: kck on December 18, 2011, 08:19:19 PM
Let's all get tattoos that look like a 5 year old did them, stating very crudly "ICE SKATING ROOLZ"
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: techskater on December 24, 2011, 01:05:47 PM
KCK. Here's an article from a writer for Men's Health who took up skating in his forties. He's passed Silver I've heard. But he may be Gold by now.

http://www.menshealth.com/fitness/train-new-sport
I don't think he's Gold yet - just started landing Axels (friends with his coach who posted that journey on FB)
Title: Re: Large Male hoping to find some useful advice
Post by: AgnesNitt on December 24, 2011, 05:16:14 PM
I don't think he's Gold yet - just started landing Axels (friends with his coach who posted that journey on FB)

Jazzpants was always a fan of his. She met him at Adult Nationals. I think he mad Adult Silver in a year or a year and a half. Anyway, it was astoundingly fast. I wish he'd do another article for Men's Health now that he's advanced.