I know how you're feeling...I started skating about four years ago because there was an ice rink at the college I was attending and I thought why not do something constructive during my 2 hr long breaks. Anyways, within months, I fell in love with this sport...took lessons, competed, joined actually two of the local clubs(due to a brief fallout I had with my home club..all is well now). Despite all the happiness it's given me, my parents just don't understand. They think the idea of performing in shows and competitions is only for the elite and young skaters. My forte is artistic and showcase, so shows are a great way to try out programmes and have fun with it. Honestly, I think I can land a triple axel and my mom still won't change her opinions of it. They think lessons are a waste of time and money. It's frustrating, but at the same time it's something that no one else in my family(of athletes, competitive dancers,) can do and hey, it makes me very happy. I find support in fellow skaters and friends who are open minded. I've even taken a few of them skating and had them try it out for themselves. I also find support in fellow skaters..of all ages from all different clubs. We're all working on something.
Why do I skate? Because it makes me feel happy, confident, challenged, creative, genius, fool, graceful, clumsy, happy, and much more. I know I love it when I step off of a session and then maybe an hour or so later I want to skate again. I agree with Teresa...one of my most important rules is make most of the ice time. It's expensive and limited, make every moment count..especially if you're the one paying for it.