Stolen blatantly from another forum lol!
But seriously, at what point did you feel like a real skater? Not neccessarily a good skater, although share that too!
For me, it's probably skating on patch with the good skaters (at my rink the best skaters are landing double loop or double flip). Or when I can link stuff together, only really simple stuff, but like I'm skating round and then mohawk and go into a jump or spin.
I don't feel like a good skater, and doubt that I ever will! Even if you class "good" as clean edges and turns, power and control rather than triple jumps, I don't have that either lol!